Lesson Learnt

I should say, the hard stone that is kept in my mind for a couple of weeks at last being put down properly and because of this, I need to thank my friend whereby he talked me out and showed me a very good example that being direct and honest by telling someone what is on your mind is definitely good for both sides. I should not feel bad to say no to someone, a good 'NO' can lead to a good ending for both. I do know that I cannot be a 'YES' man everyday, but I am way too coward to even reject people until the time whereby a lot of people getting involved and getting hurt. Sometimes, you need to be bad, you need to know the way of rejecting people, you need to say 'NO' just for the sake of goodness to both parties. There is no wrong to say 'NO'. If you have hard feeling, uncomfortable, please, be brave and say it out loud. 

And, this is the greatest lesson that I learnt in this year.

Lesson learnt, means mistake should not be repeated. Please, remember it and don't ever drag things till the moment that you cannot save the situation, act fast and keep the pain down.

Happy New Year! 

Happy Birthday!! 12.12.2011

12/12/2011. Thanks for the peaceful and warm night from my friends and family!! It's just nice to have an outing with friends and eat and chit-chat for the whole night. of course, it's a plus since there are nice cheesecake and nice food to eat with while you are laughing and enjoying your whole night in a well decorated, homey and welcoming ambient restaurant. 

Thanks to my parents and family that sending me great wishes from far although they can't celebrate the day with me. 

May everyone that I love do find their happiness and peaceful mind in their live everyday!! Love you all so much. 

Love, 

Sarah