I have observed a theory of my own for a quite a period. I have noticed it since few years ago but i have just ignored it. Until lately, i figured it out and I can say that, when someone is really hoping for a wish or situation to come true, when you give high hope on that, the things that you are hoping for will never come true..!! But, it will happen if you are not expecting it. It sounds ironic but that's so true on me though it's somehow a discouraging kind of message... i wonder if this theory can only apply on me or it actually exists in the world?? i wonder if others will face such a problem...ermmm...keeps me wondering..
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Agree with you...everytime those motivation talk will ask people to think they"if you think you can , you can " some sort like this supporting pharse. but i totally disagree...if you expect something for sure what you want is hard to fulfill. Therefore, I always do not like to compete with people, when there is any competition like....let's see who can faster in May's phone calculation, I always just give up and let you all win, cos if I try to win 1) I will very pressure 2) I do not like the feeling that have the intend to win. It seems like a bit useless, but at least I expect nothing I will never disappointed ^.<
for me, it's all about surrendering. though surrendering to God may not give you what you want, but who says you know better than Him what's good for you? Just do my best and surrender the rest to Him. Even things may seem bad, in due time, we'll see He has purpose for everything. This is not positive thinking, unlike motivation talk. This is faith in my God.
Do you have faith in yours? Find that 'something' to fill the need in you. We believe only God can does that... I'm not gonna preach to you, just wanna let you know that, when you find that thing that can give you peace and joy in any circumstances, nth in life can ever be too bad =) Hope you find yours someday.
ps... imagine yourself walking peacefully along a dark alley by yourself with o fear ;P
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